Category: Life Lessons

I’m thinking of you, Alex Trebek


~This is a new post~ Friday evening I watched a full episode of Jeorpardy!. I’ve always enjoyed the show (even unsuccessfully attempted an online tryout) but the show airs weekdays at 7 pm, a time I’m usually carting the kids of to some practice or game. My reason for tuning in was part curiosity, part […]

I was rejected


A few months ago I applied to present at a one-day conference for writers and teachers. Yesterday I received a rejection email. When I got to the second line, “Unfortunately…” I  deleted the email, blasting it into email oblivion as my mind shouted madman things: “Who are they to reject me?!” “They don’t know what […]

Let’s take it one step at a time this week


A good friend is doing something big this week. To honor their privacy I can’t reveal the specifics but my friend is taking a long-awaited, positive risk. A risk they have thought about and talked about for a long, long time. My good friend is nervous. And rightly so. They’re a little older now. A […]

Health Update: 8 Weeks of VRT


~This is a new post~ Thursday February 28th, concluded my 8th week of Vestibular Rehabilitation Therapy (VRT). It was also Rare Disease Awareness Day— a day to raise awareness for rare diseases all over the world. 8 weeks ago, I skeptically began VRT attempting to improve balance, coordination, and overall movement. Without surgery, could my […]

To celebrate 100 subscribers…


To celebrate 100 subscribers I’m gifting “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff” and a “Life favors the brave” bookmark to Megan C.– Write on Fight on’s 100th subscriber. I want to thank everyone who has shared this journey with me. I know your life is full. It’s demanding, packed with commitments, and ripe with responsibilities. And […]

Oranges (or raising a 10 year old)


~This is a new post~ An older woman with black-rimmed eyeglass and a red fedora is peeling an orange. Her unpainted and clipped finger nails strip away the dimpled skin. She didn’t know, or pretended not to care, that I was watching her peel and place both the skin and pith in a paper towel […]

How I spent my snow day (or trying to make a connection)


~This is a new post~ I totally nerded-out on my snow day. I spent the day writing a letter to Tim O’Brien– author of my favorite book, The Things They Carried. After some internet recon (sounds more upstanding than stalking) I found that Tim O’Brien currently teaches creative writing at Texas State University. In 2010, […]

How to Cross a Threshold


The following post, “How to Cross a Threshold” was originally published on March 18, 2018. This piece was also published in “Generations”, a quarterly publication that explores ataxia research and promotes ataxia awareness.     If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of […]

Today is a great day to start over


~This is a new post~ The other day I saw a young couple, a man and a woman, sitting on a porch step, leaning on one another and sharing a bottle of beer. Their were smiling. They sat in silence, just a couple of kids, as the evening sun tossed shadows across the front lawn, […]

My Best Dreaming Partner


~This is a new post~ Romantic love is a subject I don’t often write about for the simple reason it makes me uncomfortable. I mean, the men I spend time with simply don’t talk about romantic love. And they certainly don’t write about it. But it’s Valentine’s Day and the love of a woman is […]