Tag: love

My Best Dreaming Partner


~This is a new post~ Romantic love is a subject I don’t often write about for the simple reason it makes me uncomfortable. I mean, the men I spend time with simply don’t talk about romantic love. And they certainly don’t write about it. But it’s Valentine’s Day and the love of a woman is […]

Taking Notes: A Love Story


In the spirit of Valentine’s Day–the following story “Taking Notes: A Love Story” was originally published on February 16, 2018 In a world with Nicholas Sparks it’s hard to write something original about love. Love is a well-traveled topic. One, I’m sure, you’ve taken plenty of notes on. Love is patient. Love is kind. Love is engraved […]

How to Save a Marriage


In the spirit of Valentine’s Day–the following story was originally published on March 2, 2018 `It was romantic as hell. We were finally alone on the beach house front porch. The sun was rolling away from us and the sky made grand commitments to the pinks and oranges that stroke only finest of summer evenings. My […]

It’s been a tough week ~Taking My Own Advice~


It’s been a tough week. You know–one of those weeks where multiple things break, plans halt and change, arguments ensue, and the shit rises and officially hits the fan. It’s been a week of little frustrations, piling on each other, making one, hot snarling big frustration that stands bow-legged, arms-crossed, and grins six inches from […]

I suspect all parents are frauds


This week a student told me I must be the world’s greatest dad. I laughed. “What makes you believe that?” “Because you always seem to have a great answer for every question.” Flattered, sure, but there’s a big difference at being good English teacher and being a parent. Teaching literature and writing is easy.  Parenting […]

Then I heard my dying friend laugh


My friend is dying. It’s stage 4 and spreading. My friend has more bad days than good ones now. Eating is a problem. Showering is a problem. Steps are a big problem. My friend reminds me to kiss my children, eat good food, drink good alcohol, go to concerts and sing and dance and laugh, […]

It was both funny and painful to watch. "Everything hurts."


Three days after the race and Cindy is walking as if she has a pair of wooden legs. “Everything hurts. My legs, my back, my ribs.” I stand at the kitchen sink and watch Cindy open the cabinet, reach for a glass, and wince. She draws a breath. “I should’ve trained for the race.” She […]

September 11, 2001 What I remember...


I was in no immediate danger. Just a college senior, 100 miles away, sleeping his way through a philosophy of education class when the buildings exploded. Our old professor finally couldn’t find the words. He just pointed and said go and I found myself in a courtyard standing with the other faces in a loose […]

How to Save a Marriage


The following post is the final entry of the The February Project: Love and Marriage, a self-imposed month long writing project on love and marriage. “After all the romance and celestial promises of the initial courtship, love becomes a lifetime of small moments that add up to make something enormous.” from Taking Notes: A Love Story […]

The Love Story That Almost Never Happened


The following post is the final entry of the The February Project: Love and Marriage, a self-imposed month long writing project on love and marriage. “After all the romance and celestial promises of the initial courtship, love becomes a lifetime of small moments that add up to make something enormous.” from Taking Notes: A Love Story […]