Tag: advice

Trying to answer the unanswerable questions


~This is a new post~ Five and a half years later and there are still a few pieces missing in my health puzzle. My doctors and I have checked under the table. Lifted the carpet. Felt between the couch cushions. And still nothing. I spent so much time, and energy, in the spring of my […]

Where are we going? (And what’s the hurry?)


~This is a new post~ It’s 7:15 am and I’m driving to work and the silver SUV behind me is riding my tail. In the rear view mirror, I see a women with bright red lipstick in the driver’s seat motioning for me to move out of her way. I can’t hear her but she’s […]

I’m thinking of you, Alex Trebek


~This is a new post~ Friday evening I watched a full episode of Jeorpardy!. I’ve always enjoyed the show (even unsuccessfully attempted an online tryout) but the show airs weekdays at 7 pm, a time I’m usually carting the kids of to some practice or game. My reason for tuning in was part curiosity, part […]

I was rejected


A few months ago I applied to present at a one-day conference for writers and teachers. Yesterday I received a rejection email. When I got to the second line, “Unfortunately…” I  deleted the email, blasting it into email oblivion as my mind shouted madman things: “Who are they to reject me?!” “They don’t know what […]

To celebrate 100 subscribers…


To celebrate 100 subscribers I’m gifting “Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff” and a “Life favors the brave” bookmark to Megan C.– Write on Fight on’s 100th subscriber. I want to thank everyone who has shared this journey with me. I know your life is full. It’s demanding, packed with commitments, and ripe with responsibilities. And […]

Today is a great day to start over


~This is a new post~ The other day I saw a young couple, a man and a woman, sitting on a porch step, leaning on one another and sharing a bottle of beer. Their were smiling. They sat in silence, just a couple of kids, as the evening sun tossed shadows across the front lawn, […]

People Do Care


I told you the other day that this week has been a tough week for me. Just one of those weeks where nothing works. A week that put me on edge. A little angry. A little ill-tempered. A little too quick to feel sorry for myself. One of the miracles of doing this blog thing […]

It’s been a tough week ~Taking My Own Advice~


It’s been a tough week. You know–one of those weeks where multiple things break, plans halt and change, arguments ensue, and the shit rises and officially hits the fan. It’s been a week of little frustrations, piling on each other, making one, hot snarling big frustration that stands bow-legged, arms-crossed, and grins six inches from […]

Making a Change


~ To my friend, who had the courage to make a change  Her change caught everyone by surprise. They thought things were fine. She seemed so happy, so go-lucky. “I’m so surprised,” they said. What they couldn’t see was that deep inside her heart stewed a restlessness that, on certain days, breached the kettle lip […]

Life Favors the Brave


A student writes a fantastic piece of how their grandfather use to take them fishing on summer mornings. How standing on the bank, listening to the lake lap against the shore, under the morning sun they found peace. A peace they could not find anywhere else. Then winter turns and their grandfather dies. They write […]